The Secret to a Happy Life: Be Kind

At 105 years young, Mabel McEwen continues to live life with grace, energy and a heart full of kindness.

A cherished resident of Craigholme at Craigwiel Gardens, Mabel is an active and caring presence in the community, always looking out for her neighbours, making sure everyone has company at mealtimes and sharing her wisdom with a warm smile.

Mabel was born in Ailsa Craig in May 1920. Raised on a busy mixed farm, her childhood was filled with the rhythms of farm life: caring for animals, tending crops and learning the value of hard work.  That strong foundation helped shape the resilient, compassionate woman she is today.

In 1942, Mabel married George McEwen, a kindhearted Air Force mechanic from Clandeboye. Together, they moved 15 times across Ontario before settling back on George’s family farm, where they raised four children: Marion, Sheryl, Arlene and Ross. Their home overflowed with love, laughter and delicious food.

Mabel’s cooking is legendary. “No one ever left Mom’s hungry,” her daughters fondly recall. “If there were 13 people, Mom wouldn’t sit – she said it was bad luck!” Mabel’s homemade pies, tarts, scalloped potatoes and famous chocolate-date cake were crowd favourites.

The farm was a place of bounty and beauty. Mabel’s garden flourished and her pantry was filled with jars of preserves – pickles, jams and even canned fish. Her days were full, but never too full for fun. Board games, euchre, puzzles and fishing trips created memories that live on in family stories.

Even in chores, there was joy. Arlene once received praise for her straight ploughing, while Sheryl, instructed to “keep your eye on something straight,” followed a wandering cow – her row swerving with the cow’s path!

Mabel remains involved and connected since moving to Craigholme in 2015. Even at 105, her warmth and care continue to inspire. Though the family has faced loss, Mabel’s spirit and strength have kept everyone anchored.

With her daughters living nearby and an extended family of grandchildren and great-grandchildren who cherish her deeply, Mabel stands as the heart of the family.

Mabel’s life is not only long but also rich and generous. It’s about the lasting impact of a gracious heart, beautifully illustrating that kindness, love and connection endure.

Her message for a long, happy life is simple but profound: “Just be real kind to each other.”

McEwen

Sheryl, Mabel and Arlene